tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post6372372983996122397..comments2023-10-08T06:37:20.784-04:00Comments on Miss Avarice speaks her mind.: reconnectingMs. Avaricehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17821693064358519540noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-33212912751299455222008-07-15T22:35:00.000-04:002008-07-15T22:35:00.000-04:00Thanks everyone for all of the great comments. I t...Thanks everyone for all of the great comments. I think I am starting to get a better understanding of it all. The main I think I'm interested is time and practise. :)Ms. Avaricehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17821693064358519540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-981990592410909332008-07-15T02:49:00.000-04:002008-07-15T02:49:00.000-04:00Connected to the cock.Most definitely (second hand...Connected to the cock.<BR/>Most definitely (second hand knowledge for me but still I think credible) is a mental thing.<BR/>If you are both "in your heads" about the fucking then you are both going there on that level, as real as you want it to be.<BR/><BR/>I have been with people who feel their cock more than others, and in turn, I feel them feeling it.My name is Linahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06191159255232162610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-83752315531347407932008-07-14T21:25:00.000-04:002008-07-14T21:25:00.000-04:00Gorgeous post, Miss Avarice - I loved reading it.A...Gorgeous post, Miss Avarice - I loved reading it.<BR/><BR/>And here's a slightly different answer to your question. I don't wear silicone cocks, as they don't feel right to me (and for the most part, I don't wish to have a cock). That said, with one of my partners - male bodied - we reverse genitalia regularly: I have a cock and he has a cunt. Both are 'invisible' and not bio - pretty much they're imagined. But they're strongly imagined - and we both feel like we have those genitals while we are together.<BR/><BR/>So if I can feel sensations on my cock with it not physically present, I would imagine that it's also possible to feel sensations on a cock that's present but not bio. If that makes sense :)<BR/><BR/>(I've been trying to write a post about this for quite some time, but can't find the words. It's rather frustating, especially when it all happens so very easily in person.)<BR/><BR/>xx DeeDeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09293282711513429803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-25017353503078603682008-07-13T21:06:00.000-04:002008-07-13T21:06:00.000-04:00feeling your cock is an emotional/psychological co...feeling your cock is an emotional/psychological connection that i think it does take time to form. for some, it will be an immediate connection in correlation with their gender identity, but like sinclair, i know some femmes who are way more connected to their cock than others who present masculinely. and i know butches and transman who would never use a strap on. it just has to do with what you like in bed and maybe more importantly, what kind of sensations your partner likes in bed.<BR/><BR/>i also think it's contextual. the more the person i am with helps me feel like that cock is really mine, part of me, that they see it AS me, the more i can feel it as well. some of it is physical sensation from the strap on, some is the visual pleasure of watching it all happen, but i'd say most is a huge mental turn on.Dylanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04619932919728366852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-42269774379472345322008-07-12T07:03:00.000-04:002008-07-12T07:03:00.000-04:00Hey does that mean I kinda touched Dana's cock whe...Hey does that mean I kinda touched Dana's cock when I felt Tex for authenticity that one day? Teehehe. And I didn't even buy her breakfast afterwards.. haha.Zombie Cathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06079454383770684003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-68821014415993845912008-07-11T12:07:00.000-04:002008-07-11T12:07:00.000-04:00hmm, i can't much help you with your question...th...hmm, i can't much help you with your question...though i will say i think it's a very psychological thing and the line between that and physical is much thinner than people tend to think.<BR/><BR/>but what i really wanted to say is - god, that's so sexy. i so miss sucking girl cock.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8847889046060485755.post-71461897384286970832008-07-11T09:51:00.000-04:002008-07-11T09:51:00.000-04:00it does not have to do with the degree one cultiva...it does not have to do with the degree one cultivates a masculine persona - it has to do with the degree to which one is cock-identified. those are different things. <BR/><BR/>for me, those things absolutely go together. but they aren't mutually reliant.<BR/><BR/>I know femmes who are WAY more into their cocks than I am. I know transmen who don't ever strap on. I know butches who don't strap on, I know butches who do. there's no forumla here. <BR/><BR/>loving to strap on, loving your cock sucked, loving to rock a girl to orgasm pelvis-to-pelvis, doesn't make you trans, doesn't make you male, doesn't make you anything except cock-identified, cock-centric, cock-sure, cock-playful. feeling trans is what makes you trans (not that I can really define "feeling trans," but it's not <I>necessarily</I> built on any cock-centricity).sinclairhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08100914176975819219noreply@blogger.com